Friend----ZONED

Alright so I'm sure I'm speaking for all the ladies out there that have that one man that you just can't get over or he just seems to come back into your life right at the worst times? they say that they just want to try and be friends with you but they lead you on all the time? you all know what I'm talking about right? well I was talking about this with one of my really good friends because her and I have the same thing going on with some boys. We love them but at the same time we hate them. Love hate relationships! We hate the way that they make us go crazy, the way that you think that you are the one in the wrong in the situation and you have to fix it. Ya we've all been there. As we were talking about it she was saying that we look at it in the wrong way.. I wasn't sure what she was talking about but then she started to explain it into detail. They want to be friends right, and you think that they flirt with you all the time and that they are just leading you on? well we are thinking about it in the wrong way, you have the mind set that there is more between you guys, that there is still that love spark...well that's the problem right there. You can't think of it as the love relationship type, you have to which it into the friend zone relationship! Like that boy that you just want to be friends with, put him there. I never thought that would work but now that I have tried it, it really does work. Me and that boy get along just fine and there are no feelings in that way, we are actually pretty good friends. It might work better for me because I was best friends with the boy first before the love part came in so it makes it a little easier, but I did love that boy and that makes it harder! you just have to remember that there is someone out there just dying to meet you and love you. Just don't miss him by holding on to someone who wont miss you when your gone. He's out there just keep your head up!(: